50+ Flirty Pick-Up Lines for Women to Use on Anyone- Dodpo Love Life

Most women feel helpless when it comes to approaching that cute guy they like so much. Admit it, we’ve all fantasized about being that mysterious, femme fatale, with flowing hair and endlessly long legs.

Especially when you’re trying to muster up the courage to approach that man who’s watching you from across the room.

The outdated idea of letting the man take all the lead and waiting for him to make the first move still exists. And this is where we rebel.

If you want to wait for him to approach you, that’s your choice. But in these modern times, if you want something, you have to put in some effort.

Sitting idly by and waiting for him to come to you isn’t a good strategy. It’s time to be proactive and get to work!

These days, letting someone know you’re interested and getting their number is a smart move that will give you an edge over the competition.

Yes, we understand that the idea of approaching a guy and starting a conversation can be intimidating. We really do. But keep in mind that men can feel the same way!

In this article, we offer tips and tricks we’ve compiled to help you navigate the tricky world of dating. You can use any of these (or a combination of several) anywhere; at a bar, a coffee shop, online, or even on the street.

There are still ways to make a move and drive him wild without sacrificing elegance and class.

Men are human beings too, and as such, they can also feel shy and afraid when approaching you. However, with these pickup lines, we guarantee a high success rate in getting his phone number.

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Funny & Flirty Pick-Up Lines for Women (Smooth & Confident)

“Is your name Google? Because you have everything I’ve been searching for.”
“Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk past again?”
“You look like the reason my playlist suddenly got romantic.”
“If confidence had a face… it would look suspiciously like yours.”
“Do me a favor: stop being this cute. I’m trying to focus.”
“Are you a sunset? Because looking at you feels like peace.”
“I’m not flirting, I’m just practicing future conversations with you.”
“You give main-character energy… mind if I join the storyline?”
“Careful, I fall fast for people with pretty smiles.”
“Are we in the same universe, or did I just meet a glitch in perfection?”

Tip 1: ‘Hi, how’s your day going?’

Girl, here’s the problem. The real reason you’re not having any luck is one of these two things (or even both):

You don’t go out often enough.
When you do go out, you don’t make a move on people.

The same goes for online dating. If you see someone you find interesting and don’t message them, you’re definitely not going to be out of the dating scene anytime soon.

You can scoff at these lines, but you really need to realize the obvious. Approach that guy and ask him how he is.

Men are, in fact, easier to approach than women. Most of them will respond politely and tell you things about themselves.

Here’s the script: introduce yourself and ask him something about what he just said. Take this conversation as an example:

‘Hello how are you?

‘I’m fine. It’s been a great day. And you?’

‘Hello, I’m Ana. And you are?’

‘I am Miguel’

‘Okay, Miguel, what did you do to have such a great day?’

This might seem obvious, but you’d be surprised how many people forget this simple and straightforward way to connect with others.

People can be very cautious. It might seem intimidating to approach them, but don’t forget that we’re all vulnerable, especially in difficult situations.

Build a solid foundation for your conversation. Ask about his life and pay attention to the details. Men (and women, of course) like to know you’re listening.

Be attentive and genuine. By the end of the conversation, you’ll likely end up exchanging contact information.

Confident & Cute Pick-Up Lines for Women (Soft & Sweet)

“I’m not a photographer, but I can definitely picture us together.”
“You must be tired, living rent-free in my mind all day.”
“I brought you something… it’s my heart. Handle with care.”
“Do you like stars? Because my world just got brighter.”
“If kisses were snowflakes, I’d send you a blizzard.”
“You remind me of a warm hug, comforting and impossible to forget.”
“I’m not sure what’s cuter: your smile or the way I smile when I see you.”
“Do you mind helping me with something? I’m trying to stop liking you but it’s not working.”
“Your laugh sounds like my new favorite song.”
“You’re the reason butterflies still believe in themselves.”

Tip 2: ‘Hey, could you help me?’

One of those famous white-haired philosophers once said, ‘If you want someone to be your friend, let them do you a favor.’

The best way to approach a man is by asking him for a favor. Let his chivalrous side kick in and have him do something for you.

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When a woman asks a man for a simple favor, she’s activating his basic instinct to provide and protect. Men love to be that knight in shining armor.

Given the opportunity, they’re very likely to jump at the chance to help you out. Your conversation might go something like this:

‘Hey, could I ask you a favor? Could you hold my jacket while I take these drinks to my friends? I’m short on hands.’

He’ll most likely say ‘OK.’

Once you’re finished, go back to where they are and say, ‘Thank you so much! You’ve been very kind! How was your day?’

With that smooth transition, you can start a conversation with him. What guarantees the 100% success of this technique is that he’ll believe he did it. But in fact, it was you.

You chose to do it. Think of it as the modern equivalent of dropping a tissue. The idea is to create a scenario where he has to help you.

Bold & Spicy Pick-Up Lines for Women to Break the Ice (For Women Who Shoot Their Shot)

“So when are you taking me out? I like to plan ahead.”
“I’m running an experiment. You, me, a date, let’s test the chemistry.”
“Be honest… how long have you been this attractive?”
“If you’re bad at texting, it’s fine. I prefer dates anyway.”
“Let’s skip the small talk, what’s your favorite way to be kissed?”
“Blink twice if you want my number.”
“I like your vibe. Let me add it to my life permanently.”
“Careful, I flirt back. Intensely.”
“I don’t chase, but I do choose, and I’m choosing you.”
“We should hang out… you have the kind of face I’d like to memorize.”

Tip 3: ‘That t-shirt is really cool. Where did you buy it?’

Women are often known for their attention to detail. Most guys will see something as ‘green,’ while women can distinguish ‘bottle green,’ ‘mint,’ or ’emerald.’

Women are also more likely to be observant when it comes to men. They can tell if a guy is wearing a particular brand of sneakers and automatically form an impression of him based on that detail.

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So, if you have that ability (some women don’t), use that power of observation to your advantage.

It doesn’t have to be their t-shirt. Look beyond that. Are they wearing any kind of pin? Is there a phrase on their jacket? What brand are their shoes? Are they wearing cologne? Do they smell good? Are they wearing glasses?

These observations can help you start a conversation with him. To continue with the example above, let’s talk about the t-shirt.

If he’s wearing one with a logo, you could ask where he bought it or make a positive comment about the brand (if you know it).

Or, for example, if he’s wearing a university sweatshirt, you could ask him what he’s studying and if he likes it.

This can help start a conversation. When you establish a relationship, there’s a good chance he’ll like you too. Men can be flattered, and in fact, they really enjoy it.

Bonus: Make eye contact, smile, and if you’re brave, wave.

Ronan Keating sang it best in his song ‘You say it best when you say nothing at all’. Sometimes, the best way to flirt is to have no line at all. We’ll explain why.

Men are cautious too. If they see a green light, they go for it. If they detect a red light or a very small signal (or no signal at all), they don’t.

Look at it this way: men have to ask permission to approach you and talk to you. Here’s the truth: women can be much harder to approach than men.

So, as a defense mechanism, men try to interpret the signals, whether it’s your body language or the verbal language, to see if it’s really ‘safe’ to approach you.

Let’s put it this way. Treat your love life like a fireplace. It’s not like, ‘Okay, give me some heat and then I’ll give you some wood.’ It doesn’t work like that.

You need to put wood on the fire, or in this case, give some kind of signal to ignite that fire and create an opportunity for something to happen.

Don’t be stingy with your interest. If you show some interest in a man, you’re sure to receive much more attention than you give. Let’s say you’re in a bar. Make eye contact. Smile and mouth a ‘Hello’.

If you’re feeling particularly brave, give him a wave. Then, nod toward the empty seat next to you. If he’s curious and most of us are, he’ll come over to you immediately.

In the world of online dating, send him a wink or a message. The idea is to let him know he can approach you without fear, that you won’t bite.

Men want to feel welcome. Let them know you’re approachable. Send him a message to encourage him to talk to you.

Funny Pick-Up Lines for Women (Lighthearted & Playful)

“Are you WiFi? Because I’m feeling a strong connection.”
“Do you have a map? I keep getting lost in your eyes.”
“Are you a loan? Because you have my interest.”
“Do you have a Band-Aid? I scraped my knee falling for you.”
“Are you a magician? Because whenever you’re around, everything disappears.”
“Is it hot in here or is it just you?”
“Are you a keyboard? Because you’re just my type.”
“If you were a fruit, you’d be a fineapple.”
“Do you work at Starbucks? Because I like you a latte.”
“Are you a time traveler? Because I see you in my future.”

Tip 4: ‘I couldn’t help but notice…’

Let us reiterate: observation, no matter how simple, can be the key to getting closer to men. Women have an advantage here because they’re more detail-oriented than men.

Ladies, start by observing his immediate surroundings and commenting on them. Take it a step further and comment on something you’ve noticed about him in particular.

The comment can be something simple, a single sentence. You don’t have to conduct Sherlock Holmes-style investigations on this guy.

For example, imagine you see a guy you like on the street, standing next to his motorcycle:

‘Wow, I couldn’t help but notice that really cool motorcycle. What is it?’

He’ll start telling you about his motorcycle. If you’re with a motorcycle enthusiast, he might even offer detailed information about the engine.

But you have to be skillful and try to steer the conversation in another direction. After all, the motorcycle was just an excuse (unless you’re really into motorcycles). So, you could follow up with an introduction:

‘By the way, I’m Cristina. What’s your name?’

‘I’m Juan.’

‘Nice to meet you. Tell me, what are you doing here?’

When you explain your circumstances, try to find common ground. This will make the conversation flow more smoothly as you build a relationship.

‘Oh, so that’s what you do? That sounds really interesting. I have a friend who’s in that field too. You know what? We should exchange phone numbers. I’d love to get to know you a bit better.’

Once you’ve asked for his number, the direct approach will show him that you’re confident, friendly, and assertive.

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He might even be impressed with how easy it was for you to approach him and start a conversation.

Remember, men are rejected far more often than women. So, if you’re direct, he’ll be much more receptive.

Charming Pick-Up Lines for Women to Try Today

“Some people feel like sunshine; you’re definitely one of them.”
“Energy doesn’t lie – and yours pulls me in.”
“I don’t believe in perfect people, but I believe in perfect moments… like this one.”
“Your presence feels like soft music and warm coffee.”
“Attraction isn’t a choice – my heart picked you instantly.”
“Sometimes a person walks in, and suddenly everything makes sense.”
“You’re not just attractive… you’re interesting.”
“Some connections feel like déjà vu – like I’ve known you before.”
“If souls had fingerprints, yours would be all over mine.”
“You’re the kind of person that makes time slow down.”

Tip 5: ‘I feel very safe by your side’

This particular pickup line is different from the previous ones, as it’s not something you’d say to a guy you’ve just met.

The four we’ve seen so far are for starting a conversation. But what about this one? This one is best used with a man you’re already in a relationship with.

We’ve included it here for women who are already dating someone and want to give that relationship a little boost.

This pickup line appeals to his masculine instincts. Men like to feel needed. Telling him you feel safe with him will not only appeal to his basic instincts but also warm his heart. For him, it’s achieved a masculine goal: making his lady feel secure.

We like this phrase in particular because, even if you appeal to his protector, it doesn’t automatically make you a damsel in distress.

You are a confident woman who, nevertheless, feels even more secure when he is by your side.

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This, once again, goes back to the human psyche. When you compliment someone, they will strive harder to live up to that praise. The same is true for men.

The more generous you are in noticing their good qualities, the harder he will try to be the perfect man for you.

When can a woman use the best pickup lines?

In Real Life

Whether it’s in a coffee shop, bar, supermarket, on the street, or in the library, there are plenty of good-looking guys waiting for you to approach them and start a conversation.

You might find it intimidating to make the first move. But here’s the thing: men are twice as nervous approaching you as you are approaching them.

Men are often rejected, so approaching him will be a pleasant novelty for him.

Despite the outdated notion that men should always make the first move, you can choose to break with tradition and be proactive. Take the lead! Believe in yourself and own your destiny!

On-line

Today, communication technology bombards us from all sides. We have countless apps designed solely for communication.

We have social networks like Twitter, Facebook, and LinkedIn, among many others, dating apps, and much more.

The vast majority of the world’s population is online, and we spend a large part of our day glued to our phones and electronic devices.

Today, communication is as simple and automatic as breathing or blinking. We are constantly exposed to messages, news, and people. And this has also opened up a new world of possibilities for dating and meeting new people.

You just have to write a few words, hit send, and voila! You’ll have reached countless people.

However, despite the technological advances we enjoy today, we are still hindered by the blocks we impose on ourselves, whether consciously or unconsciously.

Instead of waiting for him to notice you and write to you, why not send him a message? But even online, there are dating etiquettes you should follow.

A modern, classy woman shouldn’t just send a wink or a vague message. As we’ve been saying throughout this article, observation is key.

Look at his profile and his online activity. Take some time to get to know him and apply the tips we’ve outlined above.

You might discover that, through digital means, the fear of taking the first step and talking to that guy you like is lessened. Although you’ll never know until you try!

Conclusion

Yes, we’ve already seen that when we fantasize about talking to that guy we like, some of us imagine ourselves as glamorous Amazons, with stunning figures and flowing hair.

However, that fantasy is nothing more than a shield. The idea of facing that first awkward moment, without any protection, can be terrifying and make us feel vulnerable.

But the reality we see is that it’s much easier to approach a man than a woman. Their instincts make them look for the slightest sign to know if it’s ‘safe’ to approach you.

And, after so many rejections, if they don’t see a clear sign, they won’t make the first move.

Despite what outdated theories might say, it’s perfectly normal for you to make the first move and start a conversation with a man.

With that great smile of yours, your self-confidence, and your charm, you’ll be able to win over any man without much effort.

You don’t have to be an Amazon warrior or Angelina Jolie. Believe us, you’re perfect just the way you are. Just let go and trust yourself!

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